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Friday, February 11, 2011

What is Physical Courage?

   Compiled and written by Lisa and Jennifer:

This is the first in the "Six Types of Courage" that we will explore in-depth. We hope you've already had the chance to read over our page called "The Six Types of Courage" for a brief overview of our definitions.  The examples we give for each type of courage may apply to your children and/or to you please keep in mind, when you are reading this post, that some of these examples may involve taking "baby steps" on your way to physical courage!  Every step towards courage is worthwhile and important.


Physical Courage

"If you worried about falling off the bike you'd never get on."  Lance Armstrong
"A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver five minutes longer."  Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway."  John Wayne

Physical courage is the type most people think of first, the one that allows us to risk discomfort, injury, pain or even death—running into burning buildings as a firefighter, facing an enemy on the battlefield, undergoing chemotherapy, climbing a mountain, protecting a child from a dangerous animal.  We are right to be wary of pain: pain tells us where our boundaries and limits are.  However, sometimes there are things more important than pain, and our physical fear becomes a border to be crossed.  Physical fear is often blown entirely out of proportion: pain is often greater in anticipation than in fact, and that dread can become an insurmountable barrier.  Physical courage also involves recognizing that your body is how you participate in the world; keeping it healthy, strong, and resilient prepares you for all kinds of challenges,  not just physical ones. 

This inspiring video from TED.com gives us a great example of a woman confronting seemingly insurmountable barriers through physical courage.  It's about seventeen minutes long; if you don't have time now, please watch it later.  It's well worth it.  Teaser: she rowed solo across the Atlantic Ocean!


Here's another compelling video about physical courage that challenges our assumptions about what it looks like.  It's only ten minutes long:


Physical courage looks like:

Lack of physical courage looks like:
  • holding back or hiding
  • giving up after one failed attempt
  • clinging to unhealthy habits
  • being a couch potato
  • avoiding physical challenges
  • ignoring the doctor's advice to change some of your lifestyle habits
  • allowing a prior injury or frightening experience to scare you out of trying a new sport or activity
  • shrinking back from a doctor or dentist 
  • shying away from new foods, activities, games
  • using food/alcohol/drugs to dull sensation or feelings

Physical courage sounds like:
  • "I'll try it!"
  • "I'm okay!"
  • "I can do it!"
  • "Look at me!"
  • "Let's go outside."
  • "Can I pet your dog?"
  • "I love my hair!"
  • "Watch what I can do!"
  • "No thanks, I'm full."
  • "No thanks, I don't smoke/drink."

Lack of physical courage sounds like:
  • "I can't do that."
  • "I might get hurt!"
  • "Don't do that!  You'll break your arm!"
  • "It's too hot/cold/wet/dry/squishy/slimy/dirty."
  • "Boys don't dance."
  • "Girls don't play rough."
  • "I just washed my hands!"
  • "It's too far/high/deep/big/steep."
  • "I'm fat/ugly/slow."
  • "I had a bad day—I need chocolate/a drink/a cigarette."

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Here are some tips for helping develop physical courage for you and your kids:
Posts related to physical courage: The Journey Our Kids Are On, Two Parables from Rumi, Go Climb a Tree, 5-Minute Courage Workout on Navigating the Neighborhood, 5-Minute Courage Workout on Playing with Fire, First Steps on the Path, Mental Pathways of CourageLet's Talk Dirty5-Minute Courage Workout: Talking Dirty, Dancing Through the Pain, Part 1,  Dancing Through the Pain, Part II, Perseverance: The Courage of a SpiderThe Way We Hold Our Babes,  Fenrir; Big, Bad Wolf Beowulf: A Hero's Tale Retold, Quitters, Campers, and Climbers:  Which One are You?, The Black Belt Wall, Running Plan B


What are your ideas about physical courage, your parenting tips to promote it with kids, or your favorite physical courage story (fiction or non-fiction)?  We'd love to hear from you!

Here's more on the types of courage:
What is Social Courage?
What is Emotional Courage?
What is Moral Courage?
What is Intellectual Courage?
What is Spiritual Courage?


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4 comments:

  1. my kids grew up in culturally diverse ways: either places (different regions of country/world) or around different types of people who had different food preferences. I always tried with them "the two bite rule" ... it may look funny, smell funny, definitely NOT a McD's happy meal! Just two bites, thoroughly chewed and swallowed. This allowed them the chance to try "strange" dishes (octopus, Thai etc) and if, after 2 real true Bites, they just could not stomach the meal, they were allowed to opt out for a PB & J or something bland on the menu .... nowadays, I am proud of both of them, because they are Not picky eaters, and both are also excellent chefs in their own right! one small culinary act of courage :)

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  2. sometimes you may need to take baby steps but, at least they are steps!
    For example; my middle daughter hates the feeling of being out of control (rightfully so) however most of her fear is from pre-concieved notions or what she expects may happen in the freak incidence! If I work slowly at her pace she usually surpasses all of my and her expectations of what she accomplishes. I am talking little things here like starting in the middle of the hill for sledding and skiing the green slopes all day until the very end or being in the shallow end of a pool until she is jumping off the side. So what I say is do not discourage baby steps! Thanks for the Blog its great!

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  3. Love these snippets of parenting wisdom...two bites that's adventurous! Baby-steps...such an important reminder for all readers of our blog. Trust that courage development is a process that you have the honor of supporting as your child's parent. Thank you for sharing how deeply you listen to your own and your child's wonderful spirits!

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  4. The second video was totally inspiring...what exactly makes us WANT to look normal? If you had the chance to be different, why try so hard to fit in? Embrace your "disability" or whatever makes you special, because if you do then people will become jealous of YOU.

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