Do an activity that may at least start you and/or your child in the right direction towards forgiveness. For example, write the person a letter (with intention of sending it), send the person mental wishes for well-being, light a candle and ask for the strength to forgive, plant a flower in the person's memory if he/she is no longer in your/your child's life).
Now, it's your turn. What's a true story from your life of forgiveness, or emotional courage, that we could all benefit from hearing? What ritual do you suggest when needing to forgive?